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Pain and Love - Exchangeable Synonyms Part
I
By Phil Sottile
Let’s just say you read my first
journey, “The Lonely Road to Destiny”, you will know how we have
come to this place now. Consequentially, it should then be of no surprise
where the road began and quite possibly, where I may be heading. I’ve
traveled a tough road of challenging turns and learned that wherever it is
that I might be heading, a lonely road lay before me. No matter what the
case might be, I, like you perhaps, must travel this road through life alone
living and dying by the decisions that we make day to day.
Some of us will find that companion
that completes us and some will not. I, don’t believe in that particular
coupling for myself and so my life shall go. Alas, the pain of life itself
and those that surround you, consume you, or draw the goodness from you,
evolves. The travels of life take you upon journeys. Some of us know not
from where we begin, where we are, or where it is that we are to go. For
me, my book, “The lonely Road to Destiny” ended August, 2002. I
now pick up where we left off. Our last journey was that of an unfolding
story. This one shall be different. This time we shall share in ideologies.
This time I shall share the lessons and not so much the unfolding story.
The pain that comes from traveling
the path is different for everyone. If we look through an open eye, we see
the purpose that dominates our destiny. I discovered that purpose along the
traveled path, circa March 2005. I came to the conclusion why we all do what
we do. We do it for love. It dominates our life. We are either looking for
it, in it, out of it, hurting from it, hiding from it, or wishing it was
more a part of our life. We all feel this way. All of these other things
around us are furnishings, furnishings that provide comforts, luxury, and
what we perceive to be “happiness” and “success”. In
this pursuit for this thing called, “love”, we sacrifice many different
things. Sometimes it is our character. Other times it is the values that
we hold so dear to us (if in fact we have such a virtue). Still others is
our comfort zone that protects us from being hurt from the last encounter,
whether we were careless with our heart or someone else was. These matters
of the heart are delicate ones. They are to be handled with ‘kit
gloves’. The heart is the weak link in a chain of reason and logic.
The heart serves no real purpose in our lives short of tempting us with the
fruits of what we think or perceive to be the attainment of
‘happiness’. This very desire, the very hunger to attain the ownership
of this most prized possession called love, drives us to do the unimaginable.
Reprehensible things. At times, it drives us to compromise our beliefs in
God, our belief in doing what is believed to be ‘right and wrong’,
it drives us to become so insane and miscalculated in our deduction and
evaluation of reason and sensibility. But then again, when was love ever
a sensible thing?
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I decided that my path is not the
answer to life but more of a message. In my own strange way of reasoning,
it is why I was put here. It is why I will die. Perhaps, it will be what
I die from. Who can tell? But, the last 2 years of my life has served me
to evolve: To evolve into a messenger and a kind of a ‘prophet’.
Love warps the mind, the body, and the soul.) It is why great kingdoms have
fallen, great men have dropped to their knees, or people of government have
gone into disarray. Behind every scandal, behind every action that has driven
a man to do maddening things, there is a temptress somewhere pulling the
strings. Now this fault and the blame sits directly an squarely upon the
shoulders of no one else but us….the men! It shows how weak minded we
really are and how easily we can be swayed when under the smell of lust,
love, or whatever you would like to call it!
Now relax, I don’t hate women.
HOWEVER, men have gotten the bad rap and the name for years. And behind a
cloak of secrecy and deceit, women have played the same game. NOT ALL WOMEN!!!
But look around you. These days, most have succumbed to the world in which
we now live. A world driven by the lust and desire to gather material things,
items, and worldly possessions, all of which have no place or purpose in
the pursuit of spiritual enlightenment. I see it in my home town all the
time. Married women driving around in their husband’s gas guzzling hummers,
sipping mocha latte’s and crappuccinos, pushing strollers, buying
excessively, and bringing home the receipts to the idiot coming home providing
all these ridiculous luxuries. WHY? Are these women really happy? Are these
men concluding that they are ‘providing’ for their women? Who the
hell knows!
Perhaps the reason, above all, that
my words reflect an heir of frustration, anger, or bitterness is because
of the wrong done to me by the women in my life………..OBVIOUSLY!
Why the anger? Why the frustration you ask? Well, it is quite simple yet
obnoxiously complex at the same time: The perfect marriage of provable conclusion
and illogical paradox. Where logic fails to prove, ‘love’ comes
to rear its ugly head, defying all that is logical, reasonable, mathematically
sound, or sensibly thought out. Love defies every equation of perfect synergy,
irrefutable accuracy, and unimaginable reality. It crosses boundaries of
the thinking man’s mind and makes us do dumb things without fear of
cause or consequence, right or wrong, logical or illegitimate.
And how do you ask, does this all
take place? How does this perfect little game, this infinite circle of madness
begin? It begins with that single twinkle. That little butterfly that begins
to fly around in the darkest corner of the stomach that tells our pee-wee
brains that this might be a ‘good idea’. Or maybe, it’s that
son-of-a-bitch of a penis that convinces us that we MUST meet this person.
Of course, we all know that once you dump the "jerk-off juice" out of the
system, logic and reasoning returns. God’s cruel joke on us men!
Nearly 2 years ago, I stepped off
the path of the lonely road, detouring for what I thought was a pathway to
a different ending. But unfortunately and not inconsistent with my expectations,
as I’ve known all along, for me the path (my path) is so evident and
clear. My path to destiny is a lonely one. Not one that I’ve asked for
or have brought about on my own through self prophecy, but one that has been
assigned to me by a force in this universe above and beyond a sense of reasoning
or understanding. Don’t ask why, I don’t know! It is just one of
those things we are born with. One of those things that we know and we know
not why! It is one of the those inconceivable truths that we cannot hide
from. For me, it is the sun rising in the east and setting in the west. It
is as non bending as the North Star being in the, well, north. It is what
I was born to know and just is. And some things that are will just be.
As we ask those universal questions,
“Why me” or “What did I do to deserve this”, the forces
of nature continue to guide us to and through the outcomes and take us places
that we need to go, whether or not we understand why.
My latest travels down the path of
life caused me to encounter unique lessons that will undoubtedly stay with
me for all my life, adding more mystery to that universal question of,
“Why”?
Now, don’t get me wrong. I like
nice things, aspire to gather ‘items’ of value and importance,
but NOT at the cost of my character, my integrity, my honor, or my name!
I never compromised my beliefs in who I am, what I was put here to do, or
put my professional or financial interests above that of the people that
seek my help in my expertise area of sciences. And now, through my travels
of business, love, and the learned path that I have traveled these past 31
years, I share this wisdom so that together we may learn. (And you didn’t
think a 31 year-old-man knew anything!! Shame on you!)
To be continued....if you dare to
read on!
About the author:
Phil Sottile, a noted expert in the
field of Sports Medicine and Fitness, is also a free lance writer in the
subjects of philosphy, short story, prose, and poetry. "The integration of
the mind is what empowers the body. A nurtured soul will defy odds and cause
the body to do the amazing and the impossible!"
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